Comments on: I am ready to be done now http://syndicateandhague.com/2009/07/07/i-am-ready-to-be-done-now/ Tue, 02 Nov 2010 13:30:27 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Anne http://syndicateandhague.com/2009/07/07/i-am-ready-to-be-done-now/#comment-366 Anne Wed, 08 Jul 2009 12:14:41 +0000 http://syndicateandhague.com/?p=230#comment-366 Sorry for the double post! Notice where I accidentally called Megan by your name. Twice. jeez... Sorry for the double post! Notice where I accidentally called Megan by your name. Twice. jeez…

]]> By: Anne http://syndicateandhague.com/2009/07/07/i-am-ready-to-be-done-now/#comment-365 Anne Wed, 08 Jul 2009 12:13:18 +0000 http://syndicateandhague.com/?p=230#comment-365 Ugh--my heart goes out to you and Sara. Ariel and I have been in a similar situation, but not for nearly so long--I can't even imagine the awfulness of these last three weeks (from our originally planned closing date) stretched to months. The hardest part is finding the balance between hope and safety, you're absolutely right. Not to mention being right about the banks. Have you seen *Drag Me To Hell*? Pretty awesome, as bank-manager revenge fantasies go. I think you're right--that the only way to deal with this is to let go of the results as best you can, and focus on gratitude for the gifts that are coming out of it (new faith in your community, deepening connection with Megan, etc.). I will say, though, (hopefully without setting up painful expectations) that on the very day where I finally gave up and resigned myself to probably not getting the place we want, the bank finally gave us the loan. One hour and fifteen minutes before the sellers were going to back out. Good luck--and I'll be sending you love and light and homey thoughts in the hopes that this is all resolved soon. Ugh–my heart goes out to you and Sara. Ariel and I have been in a similar situation, but not for nearly so long–I can’t even imagine the awfulness of these last three weeks (from our originally planned closing date) stretched to months. The hardest part is finding the balance between hope and safety, you’re absolutely right.

Not to mention being right about the banks. Have you seen *Drag Me To Hell*? Pretty awesome, as bank-manager revenge fantasies go.

I think you’re right–that the only way to deal with this is to let go of the results as best you can, and focus on gratitude for the gifts that are coming out of it (new faith in your community, deepening connection with Megan, etc.). I will say, though, (hopefully without setting up painful expectations) that on the very day where I finally gave up and resigned myself to probably not getting the place we want, the bank finally gave us the loan. One hour and fifteen minutes before the sellers were going to back out.

Good luck–and I’ll be sending you love and light and homey thoughts in the hopes that this is all resolved soon.

]]> By: Anne http://syndicateandhague.com/2009/07/07/i-am-ready-to-be-done-now/#comment-364 Anne Wed, 08 Jul 2009 12:13:02 +0000 http://syndicateandhague.com/?p=230#comment-364 Ugh--my heart goes out to you and Sara. Ariel and I have been in a similar situation, but not for nearly so long--I can't even imagine the awfulness of these last three weeks (from our originally planned closing date) stretched to months. The hardest part is finding the balance between hope and safety, you're absolutely right. Not to mention being right about the banks. Have you seen *Drag Me To Hell*? Pretty awesome, as bank-manager revenge fantasies go. I think you're right--that the only way to deal with this is to let go of the results as best you can, and focus on gratitude for the gifts that are coming out of it (new faith in your community, deepening connection with Sara, etc.). I will say, though, (hopefully without setting up painful expectations) that on the very day where I finally gave up and resigned myself to probably not getting the place we want, the bank finally gave us the loan. One hour and fifteen minutes before the sellers were going to back out. Good luck--and I'll be sending you love and light and homey thoughts in the hopes that this is all resolved soon. Ugh–my heart goes out to you and Sara. Ariel and I have been in a similar situation, but not for nearly so long–I can’t even imagine the awfulness of these last three weeks (from our originally planned closing date) stretched to months. The hardest part is finding the balance between hope and safety, you’re absolutely right.

Not to mention being right about the banks. Have you seen *Drag Me To Hell*? Pretty awesome, as bank-manager revenge fantasies go.

I think you’re right–that the only way to deal with this is to let go of the results as best you can, and focus on gratitude for the gifts that are coming out of it (new faith in your community, deepening connection with Sara, etc.). I will say, though, (hopefully without setting up painful expectations) that on the very day where I finally gave up and resigned myself to probably not getting the place we want, the bank finally gave us the loan. One hour and fifteen minutes before the sellers were going to back out.

Good luck–and I’ll be sending you love and light and homey thoughts in the hopes that this is all resolved soon.

]]> By: Sam http://syndicateandhague.com/2009/07/07/i-am-ready-to-be-done-now/#comment-363 Sam Wed, 08 Jul 2009 05:15:06 +0000 http://syndicateandhague.com/?p=230#comment-363 Not sure where.. how I ended up following you on twitter.. maybe it was a Rev3/TRS connection somewhere along the line. Hope the bank sorts out your short sale sometime soon. The banking industry is a miserable and ridiculous lot that makes no sense. I feel your pain.. Not sure where.. how I ended up following you on twitter.. maybe it was a Rev3/TRS connection somewhere along the line. Hope the bank sorts out your short sale sometime soon. The banking industry is a miserable and ridiculous lot that makes no sense. I feel your pain..

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